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一 |     对这句话的刻板印象早就该改改了     很多人提起这句话，第一反应就是传统孝道对年轻人的束缚，觉得它是在要求我们守在父母身边，放弃出去闯的机会。    真的是这样吗？我们都只记住了前半句，忘了后半句“游必有方”。这里的“方”从来不是刻板的方向，而是让父母安心的底气啊。

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Clapping to the beat and humming the famous Chinese folk song "Jasmine Flower," one of the African delegates at the 7th China-Africa Media Cooperation Forum joined Unitree robots in an impromptu joint rendition of the classic Chinese melody, with the robots playing guitar and drums, in Beijing on Thursday.
The lively scene was observed as the 7th China-Africa Media Cooperation Forum officially opened in Beijing on Thursday, with the attendance of 33 minister-level delegates from African countries, marking a record-high level of participation. Participants also released the Joint Declaration of the 7th China-Africa Media Cooperation Forum.
Chinese and African guests held in-depth dialogues on a range of topics, including tech-empowered creative content, trade of audio-visual services, and the application of AI in radio, television and audio-visual sectors.
Gregoire Ndjaka, director general of the African Union of Broadcasting (AUB), said Chinese technology and equipment have made an important contribution to the development and modernization of broadcasting infrastructure in Africa.
He was very happy to confirm that, based on this cooperation, China donated equipment to the AUB Content Exchange Center located in the capital of Albania, and that the AUB has benefited greatly from it, Ndjaka said.
Ndjaka said there are significant opportunities to deepen cooperation, particularly in modern equipment, lightweight production and modern broadcasting systems. The AUB is preparing to establish a training center in Senegal's capital Dakar, which will host a pan-African broadcasting and television station, he noted.
The importance of access to Chinese technology was also highlighted by Mouhamadou El Bachir Diouf, a young participant from Senegal, who tried out Chinese-made VR glasses at the entrance to the forum.
Diouf told the Global Times that his country does not have such equipment and expressed hope that Chinese technologies and equipment could be introduced to Dakar as cooperation between the two sides develops.
Chernor Abduli Bah, Sierra Leone's Minister of Information and Civic Education, said China and Africa, within the framework of South-South cooperation, have a responsibility to ensure that their messages are communicated clearly.
"We are not here in competition with any entity," Bah said, stressing that China and Africa are seeking to foster a multilateral global order based on mutual respect, mutual benefit and the principle that every human being is equal.
He also called for global governance mechanisms to adapt to current realities, saying that the international order cannot simply continue to be defined by a framework established 70 years ago, as it no longer represents the realities and aspirations of many countries.
Whether involving the United Nations, international financial institutions or other global governance mechanisms, the international system should evolve to respond to changing realities, Bah said.
Evelyne Butoyi, Burundi's Minister of Communication and Media, said cooperation with China has brought tangible benefits to the country's broadcasting sector.
She cited a digital terrestrial television project through which Burundi and Chinese firm StarTimes jointly established Burundi Television Company. The project has improved television picture quality and enabled people in Burundi to access a wider range of better-produced programs, she said.
She also highlighted the "Access to Satellite TV for 10,000 African Villages" project carried out with StarTimes, saying that 500 villages in Burundi were included in the project. Set-top boxes were distributed free of charge to rural communities, allowing people in remote areas to watch digital television.
More than 80 Chinese TV series have appeared on African screens over the past two years, including "The Three-Body Problem" and "To the Wonder," according to an introduction at the opening ceremony.
China-Africa mutually beneficial cooperation, however, has drawn criticism from some Western media outlets. A recent New York Times report said that Chinese AI models are widely favored by African developers because they are cheap and freely available, potentially weakening US dominance in the global AI race.
Commenting on the report, Allawi Ssemanda, executive director of Uganda's Development Watch Center, told the Global Times, "The New York Times will always find a way to portray Africa as simply looking for something cheap." 
He said African users choose Chinese AI models for reasons beyond cost, including their user-friendliness and the quality of information they provide.
"Personally, I know that if I use an AI model developed in the US, it may be good, but it may not give me the facts I am looking for because of global politics. If you use a Chinese-developed model, you can get what you want."
Ssemanda also rejected the notion that the affordability of Chinese AI should be viewed as a weakness. China, as part of the Global South, understands that making AI prohibitively expensive would limit access for developing countries, he said.
His comments point to a broader concern among African countries: for many developing nations, the question is not which country dominates the global AI race, but whether technological advances can be made accessible and translated into tangible development opportunities.
Thierry Lézin Moungalla, Minister of Communication and Media and government spokesperson of the Republic of the Congo, echoed this point, saying African countries continue to grapple with the digital divide.
"However, we can believe in the friendship, support and practical cooperation offered by China," Moungalla said.
。         现在的游，早就不是过去的远游了     放在古代，出一趟远门可能大半年都回不来，音信全无都是常事。

三 | 父母在家牵肠挂肚，连孩子是死是活都不知道，自然是放心不下。

四 |     现在呢？早上从广州出发，晚上就能到北京落地。

五 | 想父母了随时随地能弹个视频通话，连你今天吃了什么火锅都能给父母拍个照片看看。    现在的远游，早就不会再让父母陷入长久的等待和不安了。    我们这代人，多少人是从小县城考出来，留在大城市工作，别说远游，有些人干脆就在工作的城市安了家。要是真按老刻板印象说，那这些人都不算孝顺吗？当然不是。    真正让父母难过的从来不是你走得远，而是你走了之后，连句准信都不给，连个让他们安心的着落都没有。你说走就走，一年半载不联系，父母在家天天对着空房子掉眼泪，这才是真的不孝。

六 |     “游必有方”的新内涵，其实是让我们学会让父母安心     方是什么？放在今天，它不是你必须给父母留一个固定的地址那么简单。    你每个星期固定给父母打个电话，说说你最近的生活，哪怕只是吐槽一下公司的盒饭不好吃，他们都能开心好久。你换工作换住处，第一时间告诉他们新的联系方式，不让他们瞎担心。你在外面攒了积蓄，给自己买了医保社保，让他们知道你就算遇到事也能扛得住。         这些就是现在的“游必有方”啊。

七 |     我身边有个朋友，在北京工作了五年，父母一直在老家。她每天不管多晚，都会给妈妈发一条晚安，哪怕只是一个表情。逢年过节一定会回家，实在回不去，也会提前把给父母买的礼物寄回去，还约好邻居家的姐姐多帮着照应。    她父母从来不会天天催她回老家结婚，反而逢人就说我女儿在北京干得好，我们很放心。你看，这不就是对这句话最好的诠释吗？     哪怕你走得再远，你心里装着父母，不让他们悬着一颗心，这就够了。    真正的孝道，从来不是绑着你留在父母身边     现在很多人批判这句话，说它耽误年轻人发展，其实错怪了老祖宗的智慧。

八 |     孔子从来没说过不让年轻人出门闯荡，他自己带着弟子周游列国，不也是远游吗？他想说的从来不是“你必须留在父母身边”，而是“你要是出门，一定要想着让父母安心”。         现在很多人的矛盾，从来不是远游不对，而是只想着自己远游，忘了身后的父母。    有些人出去打拼，几年都不回一次家，电话也不打几个，父母问起近况就嫌烦，说他们不懂自己的理想。可你的理想再大，也不该让生你养你的人，天天对着月亮盼你回信啊。    也有些人，明明自己想去外面闯，就因为这句话，硬生生留在小地方，天天抱怨自己被家庭耽误了，对着父母甩脸子。这也不是孝道，这是扭曲了这句话本来的意思。    父母在，也能远游，只要你带着心安回家     现在交通这么方便，通讯这么发达，距离早就不是什么问题了。

九 |     你在大城市打拼，每年抽两次假期带父母出去旅游，或者接父母过来住一段时间，让他们看看你生活的地方，知道你过得好不好，比你天天守在家里跟他们吵架强多了。    你哪怕一个月回一次家，每次回去都开开心心陪他们吃顿饭，聊聊天，比你天天住在一起，却对着手机不理他们强多了。         这句话放到今天，从来不是束缚年轻人的枷锁，而是提醒我们的一句箴言。

十 | 不管我们走得有多远，飞的有多高，都别忘了身后还有牵挂我们的人。    别让你的远游，变成父母望眼欲穿的等待。别把你的任性，当成追求自由的借口。    父母在，人生尚有来处。只要你让父母知道你的归处，远游又有什么关系呢？     这份刻在骨子里的牵挂，才是这句话留到今天，最珍贵的新内涵。返回，查看更多。

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